We founded this practice because we were disappointed by conventional couples therapy — and learned the hard way what it means to invest serious time and money with barely any progress to show for it. We wanted to do it differently.
Many couples — ourselves included — have been disappointed by conventional couples therapy. Not because couples therapy fundamentally does not work, but because the format, the depth or the systematic approach were missing. That is the difference we want to make.
We do not take turns — we are both there in every session. It costs more than the usual arrangement, and it is why we can see and name things that one person alone would miss.
A doctorate in psychology, a psychotherapist, a trained sex therapist. She works on what sits underneath the argument: attachment patterns, old injuries, closeness and sexuality. She asks the questions you do not ask yourself — and holds the room when the answer is uncomfortable.
Years in corporate life, leadership, business travel, children — and a relationship that came last. He knows the mechanics of exhaustion and avoidance from his own experience, and works with what follows from it: goals, structure, and the question of what will actually be different this week.
In couples therapy one partner often feels less understood — usually the one whose language is not spoken in the room. With us, each of you has someone who knows that perspective from the inside. It does not turn into taking sides: we work for the relationship, not for one half of it.
While one of us is in the conversation, the other is watching. Whoever is speaking cannot see what happens alongside — the brief glance, the pulling back, the sentence left unsaid. After every session we compare what we saw.
And we show it. Couples watch two people think differently and stay connected anyway. That is hard to explain and easy to demonstrate — often it does more than any exercise.
Accuracy with which the Gottman Method can predict the failure of a relationship
Ratio of positive to negative interactions in lastingly happy couples
Decades of scientific couple research form the foundation of our method
Standing between separation and a new beginning — looking for a well-founded, honest assessment.
Who understand: a good relationship is not a given. Ready to truly work for sustainable change.
Where one person hesitates — because therapy hasn't delivered results before. Couples therapy is designed so both sides feel taken seriously.
Who need clear structures, measurable progress and a defined timeframe — not endless sessions without direction.
Who know the feeling of going in circles — without real progress. Who want more structure, clarity and tangible change.
Who keep failing at the same points — even though both know better. Who want to understand what's really behind it.
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"For the first time we felt that both of us were truly heard. They made it possible for us to stop talking against each other and to talk with each other again."
"After years of going in circles we finally felt: now someone really understands what is happening here. The combination of two therapists was the decisive difference for us."
"The diagnostics at the start showed us what was really behind our conflicts. Not what we thought. That was the moment that changed everything."
Fifteen minutes on the phone in which you get to know us and we understand your situation. No obligation, no cost — and an honest assessment of whether we are the right people for you.